>>92274 (OP)
>monsters wear all their problems on the outside.
It is extremely unlikely that this would be universal. If they are sufficiently human in their mentality fur communication and relationships with humans, then a non-trivial fraction of them will have baggage of the psychological variety. If their minds are enough like ours to want to have relationships with humans, understand consent, and so on, then they're going to think like us and behave like us. Sad but true.
>Tale Foundry
Oh God. Look, some of his criticism and storytelling is not terrible, by free Youtube video standards. And I think he may have some insights about the fantasy here. I can't argue too much against his analysis of the fantasy a lot of people share. What I'm saying is that this fantasy isn't remotely plausible if you think about it even a moment. Women are women, whether they have fluffy tails or not. Furtunately, I don't hate women. I just love fluffy tails.