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Many such cases. I have observed this rather depressing dynamic firsthand in my own family. There is a certain sort of man who has some eccentric ideas about masculinity. There is a certain sort of woman who enjoys public S&M larping, and she can usually sense this kind of man from a great distance, before he ever speaks a word. They marry, make one another miserable, and raise traumatized children who grow up thinking this is normal and this is how relationships are supposed to work.
I would say "I blame the Internet," but the truth is, this is much older than the Internet. If your earliest memories aren't of watching Daddy beat Mommy, be grateful.